Friday, October 26, 2007

Dear husband wanted me to clarify

He is feeling misunderstood. ;o) His parents never bought junk. With the little money they did have they bought clothes that were quality, bought quality food, and basically did not buy stuff that was junky just to get by. They also took care of what they had which is saying a lot these days.

This clan also practices the same thing (although with seven kids bumping around, the taking care of things does not always work the way I would like it to). My smallest child is wearing what the first son wore as a baby as I saw their baby clothes as an investment. So there is a difference from being cheap and spending wisely. If we can avoid buying things like convenience foods we will avoid it. I have taken to breaking that though too if the cost of trying to be perfectly thrifty makes me a crazy woman and cranky at everyone. I do think that the extra work involved in thriftiness can sometimes cost more in grumpiness and exhaustion than is always worth the effort. Does that make sense? Pick your battles........

Tired, grumpy children downstairs, gotta scoot.

2 comments:

Susan said...

>>the extra work involved in thriftiness can sometimes cost more in grumpiness and exhaustion than is always worth the effort<<

Amen to that!

Anita said...

Yes it does. It's funny you should mention the taking care of toys and things. Yesterday I was threating to widdle it down to 3 toys per child and donate the rest. Of course dh stepped in and helped me see that we just have clumsy, young children and broken toys are part of the package. Of course that doesn't help diminish my pile of 'toys to be mended' lol.